Each day means a new twenty-four hours. Each day means everything’s possible again. You live in the moment, you die in the moment, you take it all one day at a time. ~Marie Lu
Happy 14th Birthday Kyle!
Kyle has really taught me about life. It amazes me how one little boy, although he’s not so little anymore, can teach me about life and people and behaviors and the list goes on. It’s great! I love seeing the world through his eyes and his perception, especially now that he’s a young adult.
Now we’re working through the teenage years. I’ll admit, it’s trial and error, I’ve made some mistakes and Kyle has made some, but we’re still tight. There is nothing I wouldn’t do for for that kid, and I know he truly cares for me, and my family. I’ll always be his Aiya (Aunt Heather) and he’ll always be my Narrow. We are associated by blood, but bound by love.
Thinking back on these fourteen years, I’m amazed at how much learning and activity has been packed into each year. What a ride! One, I would never trade, ever! Kyle has been a blessing and continues be so. Since reaching teenager status, he’s been spreading his wings and pushing boundaries. That’s not necessarily a bad thing, depending on how he goes about it. I’ve always encouraged Kyle to be independent, yet responsible. Although, I’m adjusting to the idea of not being cool anymore, or a desired companion for fun activities. However, I’m hoping one day, Kyle will revert back and I will be here with open arms.
Now for my biggest surprise from this year. Besides shaving, Kyle has really stretched up. I only have about a head on him now, then he’ll surpass me. I’m about five foot six inches, so Kyle is slightly under that. He keeps eyeballing me up when standing next to me, and displaying that ornery grin. His feet are already bigger than mine, which isn’t saying much since I have small feet. We pretty much wear the same size shirts and jeans, except I need a little bit more length to mine. There was a time when Kyle thought he was being a stinker wearing my cloths and enjoyed doing so. I warned him, the tide will be changing soon enough, and now the high tide is in. The other day, Kyle said, “Hey Aunt Heather, that’s my tee shirt.” I simply looked down and said, “Umm, yes it is. Payback time! And it only goes downhill from here.” He didn’t say much. He just snickered and continued playing his video game.
Kyle is showing to be a goodhearted and honest young man, just like his dad. Ryan would’ve been very proud of him. Kyle’s not presently aware, but Ryan, his dad, would’ve been a very hands on, interactive father. That’s the only part of Kyle getting older that saddens me, not having his dad interact with him and experience every milestone. I guess Ryan’s here in spirit, and always in our hearts. Although Kyle would’ve benefited tremendously to have Ryan in his life.
Kyle’s a happy child and is blessed with a good life. That I am thankful for!
Happy Birthday Kyle! I hope you enjoy your day. I look forward to many more birthdays.